For the past few months we have been talking with Andrew a lot about "turns". We talk about when it is his turn to ride the slide, to get the mail, to feed the dog, to go to the park...All day long we talk about when it is his turn. On the flip side we also talk about when it's not his turn. (Thank You Aunt Lisa!) When we leave the park we talk about how it's another kids turn to play, when we leave a toy at the store we talk about how it's time for another kid to play with it or buy it, when we leave the store and he’s sad about leaving the car cart we talk about how it’s someone else’s turn to ride in it… You get the picture. It has all been working beautifully for us and our friends have been so impressed.
My favorite is when we go past the park with the slide. He used to whine about stopping but now he asks, "Turn?" When we say no he tells us, "Oh, big kid turn" and is ok with it. This happened everywhere we went, with everything we did and it was beautiful. I say WAS because this week he decided he no longer liked this "turn" thing. We were at the park on Wednesday and he and a little girl ran to the slide to climb up at the same time. Katelyn got there slightly before Andrew and he did not like this. So he looked at her, pushed her off the step (only 6 inches high thank goodness) and with a very firm voice declared "Turn!" (as in MY turn!) This happened 2 more times at the park (thankfully they were all my friends children), but nonetheless I was mortified. Since then he has been on a "turn" power trip. Try to help him wash his hands and he pushes your hands out of the sink saying turn, or better yet before you even turn on the water he's yelling “TURN”!
We’ve become tired of this and tonight I came up with a game plan to outwit him, or at least teach him about sharing. He was playing in the tub with the water running from the faucet. As I stuck my hands into play as well, I said "Mommy's turn". Then I took my hands out said "Andrew's turn". This went back and forth for a few times and he seemed ok with it, understanding that he would get to try again soon. I decided to push my luck and put our hands in the water stream together. I told him, “Sharing, we play together". It lasted a few seconds, and just as I thought-aha, this is great; he looked at me with the most serious of faces and said "No sharing mommy!"
Andrew 1, Mommy 0!








